Love Appart?

             About long distance relationships it is said that they have no chance to last, but in reality there are clues that support the idea that distant relationship are much more solid that we used to think; in some case these relationships  last better than the relationships in which the partners are close to one another.

             In my country, there is a saying..... ''The eyes that are not seen, will soon be forgotten''... or ''they being are improvised''. This is how this saying would sound if it to be adapted to those that love each other literally <<from far distance>> . Nowadays, thanks to telecommunications technologies, we are able to keep in touch with the love one by phone, internet webcam and so, distance is no longer an issue.    

             The important thing is to realize that, without trust you really can't succeed in a relationship.

A long distance relationship it's not simple and it demands lots of efforts from both sides, but it we think better, there is no relationship that it's simple.

 
When there is trust, communication and when you think how much you want for your half to be beside you and hug him, then in those days distance is less painful: because you know that love demands sacrifices and it worth waiting to be reunited..   

          Many think that we are not made  for long distance relationships, but life tests us with experiences like this  to  challenge us. A long distance relationship should be first taken as a challenge  and not as a painful, awful thing, something that cannot be fixed.

              Even it might sound as a paradox, it looks like that the partners involved in a long distance relationship communicate more intense and more often than those that live together in a couple. This constant contact,( even three or four times per day) tries to compensate the distance and finally creates strong bonds between the two partners.

Because the interactions are more consistent and more powerful  the feelings, the thoughts, the emotions are stronger due to the distance that increses them.

      The technological progress plays as well a important role because it encourages communication  through means like Skype or Facebook.

              Physical distance makes desire and attraction stronger, because we always dream to something that you can't have or it's not accessible. That is why even if you are not in a distant relationship is good to leave some space to your partner and to prevent that routine installs in the couple.

              From this point of view, the desire, satisfaction and the absence of routine are exactly the ingredients needed to feed  passion.

 
Let's be reasonable: '' Who does not want passion''?

             When you have a relationship with someone who is far away,  you tend to find more time to spend with him communicating rather if that person would live closer.  The thousands of miles that separate us, make us understand that nothing comes easy, without effort and this would make us cherish even more the relationship.  

A long distance relationship is for special people with dreams and commun aspirations, with impeccable character and creatives, spiritual compatibles, without being submitted to mediocrity and the lack of trust.

Tell me, what is your personal opinion about the long distance relationship?